{"id":811,"date":"2025-05-12T10:24:08","date_gmt":"2025-05-12T10:24:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/?p=811"},"modified":"2025-05-19T07:28:01","modified_gmt":"2025-05-19T07:28:01","slug":"struggling-with-grief-over","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/","title":{"rendered":"The Grief No One Talks About: Mourning the Life You Thought You\u2019d Have"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_76 ez-toc-wrap-left counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/#The_Grief_No_One_Talks_About_Mourning_the_Life_You_Thought_Youd_Have\" >The Grief No One Talks About: Mourning the Life You Thought You\u2019d Have<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-2' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/#The_Secret_Grief_That_Lives_in_Silence\" >The Secret Grief That Lives in Silence<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/#Is_It_Just_Me%E2%80%9D_No_Youre_Not_Alone\" >Is It Just Me?\u201d No. You\u2019re Not Alone<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/#You_Can_Be_Grateful%E2%80%A6_and_Still_Grieving\" >You Can Be Grateful\u2026 and Still Grieving<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/#What_This_Type_of_Grief_Really_Looks_Like\" >What This Type of Grief Really Looks Like?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/#Sometimes_it_looks_like\" >Sometimes, it looks like:<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/#3_Stories_Youll_Probably_Relate_To\" >3 Stories You\u2019ll Probably Relate To<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/#What_Happens_If_You_Ignore_This_Grief\" >What Happens If You Ignore This Grief?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/#Mourning_the_Life_You_Thought_Youd_Have_Isnt_Selfish_Its_Necessary\" >Mourning the Life You Thought You\u2019d Have Isn\u2019t Selfish. It\u2019s Necessary.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/#Helply_For_the_Grief_You_Hide_Behind_a_Smile\" >Helply: For the Grief You Hide Behind a Smile<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/struggling-with-grief-over\/#FAQs\" >FAQs<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Grief_No_One_Talks_About_Mourning_the_Life_You_Thought_Youd_Have\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>The Grief No One Talks About: Mourning the Life You Thought You\u2019d Have<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<p><strong>It Wasn\u2019t a Death\u2014So Why Does It Hurt So Much?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t lose someone.<\/p>\n<p>No one sent flowers.<\/p>\n<p>No one asked how you\u2019re holding up.<\/p>\n<p>There wasn\u2019t a single condolence message.<\/p>\n<p>But deep inside\u2026 It still hurts.<\/p>\n<p>Because what you lost was the version of your life you thought you\u2019d have.<\/p>\n<p>The one where you had the dream job.<\/p>\n<p>The one where you were married by now.<\/p>\n<p>The one where you had kids, or traveled the world, or just felt happy waking up every morning.<\/p>\n<p>But life had other plans.<\/p>\n<p>And now you\u2019re left holding invisible pieces of a dream no one else saw fall apart.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Secret_Grief_That_Lives_in_Silence\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>The Secret Grief That Lives in Silence<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>No one talks about this grief. But it\u2019s real.<\/p>\n<p>You scroll through social media.<\/p>\n<p>You see engagement announcements, business launches, vacation photos with happy captions.<\/p>\n<p>And something in your chest tightens.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not jealous. Not exactly.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re just\u2026 hurting.<\/p>\n<p>Hurting for the person you thought you\u2019d be by now.<\/p>\n<p>That version of you who had it \u201call figured out.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That timeline you built in your mind\u2014where by 30 you\u2019d be there.<\/p>\n<p>Wherever there was.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Is_It_Just_Me%E2%80%9D_No_Youre_Not_Alone\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Is It Just Me?\u201d No. You\u2019re Not Alone<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019d be shocked how many people are grieving the life they thought they\u2019d have\u2014quietly, painfully, and without ever naming it.<\/p>\n<p>A global mental health survey in 2023 revealed that:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>72% of people feel they\u2019ve \u201cfallen behind\u201d on life milestones.<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Most of them never talk about it\u2014not even with loved ones.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>That\u2019s millions of people walking around, looking fine on the outside, but carrying a deep ache inside.<\/p>\n<p>A grief no one acknowledges because there was no funeral.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"You_Can_Be_Grateful%E2%80%A6_and_Still_Grieving\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>You Can Be Grateful\u2026 and Still Grieving<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Maybe you have a good job.<\/p>\n<p>A roof over your head.<\/p>\n<p>Friends. A relationship.<\/p>\n<p>And yet, some days you still feel lost.<\/p>\n<p>Like you\u2019re not where you were supposed to be.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not being ungrateful.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s being human.<\/p>\n<p>We were all sold a version of life\u2014by movies, school, our families, and even ourselves. And when life doesn\u2019t match that version?<\/p>\n<p>We mourn. Quietly. Alone.<\/p>\n<p>And it eats us alive from the inside.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_This_Type_of_Grief_Really_Looks_Like\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>What This Type of Grief Really Looks Like?<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t always come in tears.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sometimes_it_looks_like\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Sometimes, it looks like:<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Avoiding friends who \u201chave it together\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Feeling anxious when someone asks, \u201cWhat\u2019s your plan now?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Smiling through conversations, but feeling empty on the ride home<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Comparing your timeline to everyone else\u2019s\u2014and always feeling behind<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This is mourning the life you thought you\u2019d have.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the grief that shows up at weddings, baby showers, job promotions\u2014because those moments remind you of what you don\u2019t have.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s okay to admit.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Stories_Youll_Probably_Relate_To\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>3 Stories You\u2019ll Probably Relate To<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li><strong> Maria, 36<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>She thought she\u2019d be a mom by now.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019s single, successful, and surrounded by people who assume she chose \u201cthe career path.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But she never chose this version of her life\u2014it just\u2026 happened.<\/p>\n<p>And some nights, she cries herself to sleep, mourning a child she never had.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong> Hassan, 40<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>He was supposed to start his own business.<\/p>\n<p>But one financial hit after another kept him stuck in a 9-5.<\/p>\n<p>He provides for his family\u2014but the founder in him is buried under Excel sheets.<\/p>\n<p>Every time he drives past a \u201cFor Lease\u201d sign, he wonders what might\u2019ve been.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong> Zahra, 31<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>She imagined herself married by now, maybe living abroad.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019s back in her childhood bedroom, battling anxiety, and feeling like she \u201cwasted her 20s.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She posts happy photos, but deep inside? She\u2019s mourning the woman she thought she\u2019d be.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So\u2026 How Do You Grieve Something That Didn\u2019t Happen?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the hardest part.<\/p>\n<p>How do you mourn a future that never became real?<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the answer: You mourn it like any other loss.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\ud83d\udc94 Step 1: Say It Out Loud<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cI thought I\u2019d be further by now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI wanted something else.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Just naming it is healing. Seriously.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\ud83d\udcad Step 2: Let Yourself Feel<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Anger, regret, sadness, even jealousy. It\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n<p>The only way out of grief\u2026 is through it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u270d\ufe0f Step 3: Rewrite the Narrative<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Your story didn\u2019t end. It just changed direction.<\/p>\n<p>And guess what? Some of the most beautiful chapters come after the \u201cplot twist.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Happens_If_You_Ignore_This_Grief\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>What Happens If You Ignore This Grief?<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Here\u2019s the real, raw truth:<\/p>\n<p>Unprocessed grief becomes:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Bitterness<\/li>\n<li>Chronic anxiety<\/li>\n<li>Decision paralysis<\/li>\n<li>And sometimes, even physical illness<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When we suppress this invisible grief, it doesn\u2019t disappear\u2014it gets stored in the body.<\/p>\n<p>Studies link unresolved life regret to higher stress levels, fatigue, and even lowered immunity.<\/p>\n<p>So no, it\u2019s not just in your head.<\/p>\n<p>Your body knows when your heart is breaking\u2014even if no one else does.<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-814 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-37-1-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"grief\" width=\"1920\" height=\"2560\" srcset=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-37-1-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-37-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-37-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-37-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-37-1-1536x2048.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mourning_the_Life_You_Thought_Youd_Have_Isnt_Selfish_Its_Necessary\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Mourning the Life You Thought You\u2019d Have Isn\u2019t Selfish. It\u2019s Necessary.<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019re allowed to grieve the road not taken.<\/p>\n<p>The child you didn\u2019t have.<\/p>\n<p>The love that never came.<\/p>\n<p>The job that slipped away.<\/p>\n<p>The version of you that only lived in daydreams.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need permission.<\/p>\n<p>You just need to know: It matters.<\/p>\n<p>And you matter\u2014exactly as you are, even if you\u2019re still becoming.<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-815 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-38-1-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"grief\" width=\"1920\" height=\"2560\" srcset=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-38-1-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-38-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-38-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-38-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/helply.ae\/blogwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Helpy-Blog-38-1-1536x2048.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Helply_For_the_Grief_You_Hide_Behind_a_Smile\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Helply: For the Grief You Hide Behind a Smile<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Not all grief wears black. Some wears lipstick. Some wears suits. Some just scrolls in silence at 2am.<\/p>\n<p>At <a href=\"https:\/\/helply.ae\/\">Helply<\/a>, we see the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Grief\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">grief<\/a> that others overlook.<\/p>\n<p>Our licensed therapists understand that sometimes, it\u2019s not about healing from something that happened\u2014<\/p>\n<p>but from everything that didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>We help you process this invisible pain.<\/p>\n<p>We help you forgive yourself for not meeting impossible timelines.<\/p>\n<p>We help you dream again\u2014with softness, not pressure.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Let us walk with you\u2014not to get you \u201cback on track\u201d\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>but to help you create your own.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Start your healing with Helply. One gentle step at a time.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>FAQs<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li><strong> Can you really grieve something that never happened?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Yes. It\u2019s called disenfranchised grief, and it\u2019s 100% valid. You&#8217;re mourning lost dreams, and that\u2019s as real as any other loss.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong> Why do I feel guilty for being sad about this?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Because society teaches us to \u201cbe thankful.\u201d But gratitude and grief can exist at the same time. Feeling one doesn\u2019t cancel out the other.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong> How do I know if I need therapy?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you&#8217;re constantly thinking about \u201cwhat could\u2019ve been\u201d and it\u2019s affecting your peace, therapy can help you unpack and heal.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong> Is it too late to start a new dream?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Never. Dreams aren\u2019t tied to age\u2014they\u2019re tied to belief. The second you decide it\u2019s still possible, it is.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><strong> How is Helply different from other therapy platforms?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Helply is built around emotional honesty. We\u2019re not about quick fixes\u2014we\u2019re about real healing, especially for the pain that hides behind \u201cI\u2019m fine.\u201d<\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li><strong> What if I don\u2019t know how to start healing?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>That\u2019s okay. Just starting the conversation is a powerful first step\u2014and with Helply, you never have to do it alone.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Grief No One Talks About: Mourning the Life You Thought You\u2019d Have It Wasn\u2019t a Death\u2014So Why Does It Hurt So Much? 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